We are all born with a journey to make.
Your life is a story.
Is it a good story?
The point of a story is not to win. Money or success or accolades. A great ministry.
The point of every story is the character arc.
The protagonist has to change or it’s a bad story.
He has to go from stingy to generous.
She has to go from shame-filled to confident.
And here’s the part nobody likes: pain is the only way we change.
If you’re a writer and your story is all happy and no pain, your character can’t change, and therefore it’s not a great story. It might be slightly entertaining for a second, but it’s not transformative. Cotton candy story.
If you’re a human and your story is all happy and no pain, you can’t change, and therefore your life is not a great story. It might be peaceful and comfortable, but you won’t transform, you won’t grow. Cotton candy life.
The biggest thing that I’ve found that helps me get any traction on this is to throw off everything that hinders. Minimize. Streamline. Focus on one thing at a time, get rid of anything that isn’t contributing to who you want to become.
This is hard. It’s a narrow path.
But the amount of life you receive is closely tied to the amount of meaningless pleasures you’re willing to let go of to pursue a better story.